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June 21, 2008

our death is our wedding with eternity [Baqi Gharqad and death] — almiskeenah @ 8:13 pm

 

 

 

The silence of not hearing the call for the Janazah Salat after the Fardh Salat is uncommon.  Not that there weren’t any deaths in Madinah since the last prayer, just that the deceased may not have been prepared in time. Hospitals have the rule that once someone has passed over two hours must elapse before they release the body. Many choose to wash and shroud their loved ones in the home, with staff from the central ‘Department of Preparation’, the funeral facility adjacent to Jannatul Baqi, attending, bringing the folding, slatted wooden bench for Ghusl and the shroud if the family does not already have this. Many add the leaves and bark from the Sidr tree, camphor and attar between the layers of the shroud.  If the deceased is prepared in the home they still must be taken to the Department of Preparation, before being transported to Masjid Nabawi. Such is the journey, a final departure towards a final arrival.

 

 

 

Allah Ta’ala has long ago written the time He will send Malakul Maut to visit each and every one of us. Some will be given a specified time to prepare, others will be decreed to be taken back to our Rabb at an instant. We all know we shall taste death…yet very few of us give this journey much thought as we become more and more entangled in the distractions this fleeting existence is constantly tempting us with. Almost 7000 people across the world pass away every hour. Nothing is predicable or preventable; age, cause, place, time, are all Allah Ta’ala’s sole domain.

"The servant will certainly labour under the difficulties and agonies of death. His joints will bid each other farewell, saying ‘Peace be upon you! You are parting from me and I am parting from you until the Day of Judgement’" said our Blessed Rasul SallAllahu alaihi wasallam.

We will reap what we have sown, journeying from this temporal abode that we have been deluded with, thinking is permanent, to the beginning of the next life that is Eternal.

 

 

 

The words of our Beloved Prophet SallAllahu alaihi wasallam should help us to be alert and awake to reality of deception in this world:

"Truly smart is the person who controlled his desires and prepared for life after death."

Remembering death is as an antidote for deception, bringing into focus that soon we all will be standing before Allah Ta’ala, accountable for our obedience as well as our disobedience. Not an atom’s weight; good or bad escapes the knowledge of Allah Ta’ala, but at least there is hope, Insha’Allah.  

 

Our death is our wedding with eternity.

What is the secret? "God is One."

The sunlight splits when entering the windows of the house.

This multiplicity exists in the cluster of grapes;

It is not in the juice made from the grapes.

For he who is living in the Light of God,

The death of the carnal soul is a blessing.

Regarding him, say neither bad nor good,

For he is gone beyond the good and the bad.

Fix your eyes on God and do not talk about what is invisible,

So that he may place another look in your eyes.

It is in the vision of the physical eyes

That no invisible or secret thing exists.

But when the eye is turned toward the Light of God

What thing could remain hidden under such a Light?

Although all lights emanate from the Divine Light

Don’t call all these lights "the Light of God";

It is the eternal light which is the Light of God,

The ephemeral light is an attribute of the body and the flesh.

…Oh God who gives the grace of vision!

The bird of vision is flying towards You with the wings of desire.

Rumi

The children whose art work often graces the pages of this humble space are currently dealing with one of the more ugly faces of death. Their maternal grandmother, who as yet has not been gifted with Hidayah has been given moments to live. Many of us, whose extended families are of us but not of us, need your Du’a; pleading to Allah the Almighty, that His Mercy pierces their hearts before it is too late, especially this loved Grandma.    

Oh God, who gives the grace of vision, in her final hours of darkness, let her bird of vision fly towards Your Light. May the journey she is about to take be to You, as You reach out to her, Ameen.  And may those of us already blessed with the gift of Iman prepare for the inevitable journey as if each day is our last, Ameen.

All good is from Allah Ta’ala whereas mistakes are from this humble speck. May Allah Ta’ala Bless all readers, bringing you all closer to Him and His Rasul SallAllahu alaihi wasallam. May He accept our humble efforts and grant us the capacity to be good and do good. Ameen. 

 

 

 

 

 

 

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  1. Ameen! Ameen! to your two duas. Inshallah, the eyes of the nations will open before they are closed to this life. Thank you, dearest Sister, as always, for the reminders, and the most timely Rumi poem :)

    Ya Haqq!

    Comment by Irving — June 21, 2008 @ 8:49 pm

  2. Assalamu Alaikum Warahmatullah
    Aameen!Aameen! to your forever beautiful duas.
    And Jazakallahu khairan for posting yet another wonderful post.
    Please keep us and Grandma in your duas as we do for you in ours.Inshallah.
    all our love and for now ,
    Wassalamu Alaikum,
    Maryam and Asiyah

    Comment by Maryam and Asiyah — June 22, 2008 @ 12:12 am

  3. Assalamalikum Sister,
    I have a query and its not related to this post though. I dont know where exactly is “Ashaabey Saffa” inside Masjidey-Nabvi. This is the place where all the sahabaas (raziallahu anhum) used to assemble and listen to RasoolAllah SAW.
    I would be glad if you could put this info into my gmail inbox. Jazakallah. May Allah bless you.
    Regards,
    Misbah

    Comment by Syed Ali Misbauddin — June 22, 2008 @ 1:49 pm

  4. slmz sister
    may Allah accept all the duas u made in this post and every other dua of yours and all of us, ameen! please make special dua for us for hidayat of our loved ones, even those born with iman but straying off the path, Allah knows best and may He grant us all steadfastness, Ameen!!
    as to ur post, may we also be of those blessed souls who pass away in madinah tayyiba, or wherever we do may t be a mubarak death.
    shukran
    was salaam

    Comment by sister in islam, south africa — June 22, 2008 @ 9:52 pm

  5. Wa ‘alaikumus Salam Dear Irving Darvish, JazakumuLlahu khairan for your pertinent quote…Rumi always so inspiring.
    Insha’Allah we will be keeping Grandma in our Du’as dear Maryam and Asiyah, and JazakumuLlahu khairan for thinking of us too.
    Insha’Allah I intend to include this information in a post coming up Dear Brother Misbah.
    Ameen thumma Ameen Dear Sister in Islam…
    Wassalamu alaikum

    Comment by almiskeenah — June 22, 2008 @ 10:50 pm

  6. map janthul baqi

    Comment by siraj ali — June 13, 2009 @ 4:53 pm

  7. u r blog Is very nice

    Comment by Sri Lanka Matrimonial — August 13, 2009 @ 9:00 am

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